I’ve had an interesting week, I really
have!
It’s been revealing to say the least.
In what way you ask?
Well I have a BIG birthday coming up this
weekend, and I guess, because it’s a big one, I feel and apparently, everyone
else around me does, that I need to have something for my birthday, that is,
representational to the amount of years I will be. Really?
Of course, all birthdays are important and you
should celebrate them! But do you make the
ones with the zeros more important?
Every birthday is an achievement don’t you think? An achievement of
being wiser, sharing your life with those you love, enjoying yourself, ‘being’
happy, isn’t that what everyone wants?
I was drawn in, I must admit, to the idea
of some diamond earing’s, my first thought!
I’d had some Pearl one’s last year, though not a zero birthday, and I absolutely
love them!
The thing is, I don’t know about you, but,
can you see a difference in real pearls? In the quality of them, so that they actually
mean something to you? Now I don’t want
you to think I’m spoilt, cos really, I’m not, but looking at the size of the
diamonds in earing’s I saw, for a substantial amount of money, I just thought no,
they don’t make me feel good
or special!
So, I looked around for something else, I
saw a nice chain bracelet, a cheaper sparkly necklace, (this was just to have
something ‘on the day’ yeah I know crazy!) – I could not find anything that spoke to me,
really! When I walked into the shop, a
lady said to me, it’s all beautiful isn’t it? Don’t you just want
everything? And I thought, well no, I’m
having trouble finding the right thing for me.
That’s the thing though, do you ever realise you’re going
for ‘the things to buy’ instead of ‘what they make you feel like’? The emotions they conjure up, maybe your own self-worth
is far more than you realise, because it’s not about the money, it’s about what you’re feeling,
in your life that matters the most to you!
This is a revelation in itself! Do you find you don’t even look at ‘real’
jewelry because you can’t afford it full stop? Does it make you feel less worthy? But then you suddenly realise, if you’d looked at them, as if you were going to buy them, you may
not want any of it? cos you’re really not, feeling it?
Do you do that? Do you stop giving yourself
even the experience, of finding out, ‘what you want’ without thinking about the
money? If you suddenly had excess money
would, you know exactly what you would buy?
The answer to this is not ‘Diamond Earrings’ no, no no, you need to know:
What type of diamonds as in:
caret
colour
setting
design
style
in gold, silver, white gold
whether they suit you
what shop they’re in
and finally, what price they are for the
‘energy’ or money exchange
Ah but no, wait a minute, the most
important of them all is whether they make you ‘feel WOWZA!’
But, you do need, all this information,
otherwise you’re going to be running around like a blue a…d fly frustrated
because you don’t really ‘know’ what you want.
And that goes for everything in your
life…If you don’t focus on what it is, you want, then the universe is going to
give you all those things you don’t want…It’s all just focus
Yes, that’s it, in a simplistic way, but so,
so true
I now give you permission to go into any
shop you want, and shop with all your heart, (no money involved here!) just
‘how it would make you feel’ I want you to look at everything until you find
things that make you feel like a ‘million dollars’ – but, remember it’s not about
the money! It’s about the ‘feeling’ – because you never know what the universe
has in store for you, and to be honest it’s not really helping you much
focusing on the limits of your life is it?
I was talking to someone about the FREE
assessments I give you, I realised why they are so needed, because no, I don’t
take everyone on as a client. That may
surprise you, you’d think I’d want to grab every last penny of work I can?
Well it doesn’t work like? Cos you only
have so many hours in the week, so it makes sense to be choosy ‘who’ you work
with right?
Especially when you’re in ‘the better I am
at my job’ the less time my clients stay working with me?
And I can see how crazy that looks, for my
work, but you know I’d rather work with people who are really committed to
doing the work, than those messing around and not even wanting, to do the work
on themselves.
Literally, I have seen some amazing people,
mainly women, who are upping their lives to exactly, what, and how they want
it, in business and in life, these women truly inspire me, I feel so grateful
to love my job and my clients.
They do ‘get it’ truly, and that means I get
to be the best coach or counsellor for them.
And in turn that is what gives you a good reputation for what you do!
This is another ‘conscious choice’ that you
have to make, because again, it has to mean something deeper to yourself,
what’s the point in spending all your time dealing with people who don’t ‘get’
where you’re coming from.
If you’re looking for some real focus in life
or biz, and want to work with me, have a look at whether you fit the criteria
below:
a) You’re committed to doing the work, you
really want to change your life for the better, I’m really not in the business
of wasting anyone’s (yours or mine) time and money…and
b) The work you want to do is an area I’m
experienced in
If this fits you get in touch for your free
assessment, take action NOW
ACTION will always move you forward!
Email me: sally@absolutelyfabulousminds.com
– Just ask for your FREE assessment, we’ll have a 15-minute chat for me to take
details about you, what issues you want to work with, and see if we feel
comfortable talking to each other and working together! I’m here to enable those like you, to achieve
your dreams of feeling happy and prosperous in your life! Don’t wait till the next big birthday lol
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